Hey, romantic couples out there. If you missed an opportunity to propose to the love of your life on Christmas Day, New Year’s Eve or Valentine’s Day, you have another chance this weekend. Not only does Sunday, March 20, represent the vernal equinox (first day of spring), but it’s also National Proposal Day.
Conceived by John Michael O’Loughlin decades ago as a perfect time for procrastinating lovers to finally ask for their partners’ hand in marriage, National Proposal Day has slowly become an accepted part of our holiday lexicon.
O’Loughlin picked the vernal equinox as the ideal day for couples to make the ultimate commitment to each other because it’s the special time of the year when day and night are equal lengths worldwide. O’Loughlin reasoned that this symbolizes “the equal efforts of the two required to comprise the successful marriage.”
If you’re wondering if the autumnal equinox — another perfectly balanced day — would carry the same symbolism as the spring version, your hunch is right on. There is a second National Proposal Day on the first day of fall, September 22.
The romantic O’Loughlin created National Proposal Day after watching his cousin wait years for a proposal that never came. He felt that a special day earmarked for proposals would put a fire under some partners who have waited a bit too long to pop the question.
National Proposal Day is promoted as a worldwide event, and O’Loughlin encourages romantic couples to meet up with like-minded friends via social media using the hashtag, “proposalday.” O’Loughlin, who registered the name Proposal Day!®, clarified that March 20 doesn’t have to end with a proposal. It can be used, instead, to spark a conversation about a future proposal.
Twice a year, in the lead up to National Proposal Day, O’Loughlin adds to the excitement by announcing the world’s most eligible bachelor and bachelorette. This past fall, he chose John F. Kennedy’s grandson, Jack Schlossberg, and British actress Emma Watson. This spring’s most eligible guy and gal will be posted at the official Proposal Day!® website on the late evening of Friday, March 18.